Looking for the best relationship advice ever given?
You are in the right place.
But before we get there, there is this quote by Maya Angelou that says;
“Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.”Maya Angelou
So, what are we talking about today?
I want to give you the best relationship advice ever, all right.
This advice is going to change your life.
This advice is going to help you in your relationships.
And help you receive exactly what you are looking for.
Reality about love
Here is the reality;
In love and relationships, we are all trying to figure this thing out.
I am trying to help you see more clearly how you need to better go about your relationships and how you can approach it more effectively.
The reality is there is a lot of bad information being given out there.
A lot of people are leading you on the wrong path.
Some of it has been your own family members, your friends, or you are letting your own past negative experiences shape your perception of love and relationships.
And now, more and more people are getting into toxic relationships.
How you are sabotaging your own relationships
More and more people are trying to navigate this space with walls up.
But the truth is, the same walls you have to protect you, are the same walls blocking your blessings.
The reality is this, you cannot fully give love and receive love with walls up.
You are hindering the flow of love in and out of you because you are holding on to fear.
You are holding on to anxiety.
You keep replaying what you have been through rather than resolving and healing from it.
That is not going to work.
You’ve got to let it go.
You’ve got to be willing to be fully vulnerable if you want to receive love.
The BEST Relationship Advice Ever Given
This brings me to what exactly is the best piece of relationship advise ever.
And that is to love with all your heart and hold nothing back.
You might be thinking, oh, heck no!
The last time I tried that it got me hurt.
Let me explain:
Loving with all your heart isn’t what got you hurt.
Dealing with the wrong person is what got you hurt.
Trying to be in a relationship before you or them were truly ready is what got you hurt.
Letting the love fully come out of you is not the hurtful part.
But here is the reason why that has to happen and it is the best piece of advice you can ever embrace.
If you want to truly experience a relationship at its full potential, you’ve got to let it all out.
You’ve got to love with all your heart.
And in doing that you are going to expose what that other person is really about.
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When you hold back, you validate them holding back.
And now trying to determine and see where they really stand becomes a lot more clouded and more difficult to read.
Also, it becomes harder to read because you are trying to evaluate things through a broken lens.
When you haven’t healed your vision is blurred.
You can’t see things straight.
How to know what your partner is up to
First, you must create the love within you through healing.
You must create the love within you through connecting to God, connecting to your spirit.
When you fill yourself up with love, now you can see everything more clearly.
And now you go into a relationship giving your all, holding nothing back.
Not taking tabs of what you did because in giving everything, the other person has two options;
- Step up to the plate or
- Get the heck on.
They cannot anymore validate their lack of effort.
They can’t validate their walls being up when you are letting it all flow out.
So, if you want to really see what they are about, love them with all your heart.
Here is the beautiful thing.
If they show themselves to be on the same plane as you, to want to match your energy, match your effort, now, you two will have the most amazing relationship.
Because you are both giving your all to each other.
And if they are not going to step up to the plate, you are going to expose them so fast.
This way, you won’t waste months and years in dead-end relationships that only damage you further and keep you in a negative cycle.
Stop holding back.
Let it all out.
Love with all your heart and you will get to experience relationships at a whole new level.
But not just relationships, with other people.
Final thoughts on Best Relationship Advice Ever
The greatest relationship is with you and God because that is where you will find your peace and find your happiness.
Shine your light so that you can receive the person who is truly best for you and no longer waste your time on people who are not.
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